This essay explains the differences between the lives of my mother and me. There is a huge generation gap between us as well as there are differences in opportunities, education, cultural and healthcare (Palasri, Huter & Wenzel, 2013). This essay was done with the permission of my mother. I was very enthusiastic about knowing more about my mother. Growing up with my mother was a nice experience, but she never expressed much about the difficulties she have faced. She has great respect for the education, and according to her, it is very important to be educated. She states that knowledge can make a person wise and happy. Being educated can give a person the strength to look forward in life and do what is needed to be done. It can make a person self-dependent. Being an unfortunate student, my mother has seen many incidents that made her strong and determined from the inside to achieve her education. The following paragraphs will explain how my mother influenced my value and beliefs, what she may have faced during her educational life and the challenges she may have encountered when she was of my age.
My mother was the first person whom I always wanted to be my idol since my childhood. With such a personality and value, my mother is the sweetest person that I know. She was born in 1958. She was born into a big family, and there were many family members unlike mine. The place where my mother was born was rural and with lack of opportunities and technologies (Grimm, Waibel & Klasen, 2016). At that time, there were not many opportunities for the education and the schools were very far away. At that time, there were restrictions on the girl’s schooling, there were many reasons behind that, security issues for the girls and the schooling distances (Baker & Phongpaichit, 2014). There were not many numbers of schools were available nearby. Encouragement and dedications were the main factors that made the students to do their studies. However, my grandfather encouraged my mother to study as much as she wants. My grandfather being a former teacher knew the importance of the study (Vorapanya & Dunlap, 2014). He knew that the education could help his daughter to become a great personality. Keeping in mind the educational obstacles of that time, he decided to support endlessly towards the study of my mother and her sisters. At that period, the women used to be married at a very early age. It was a belief that that the women were better off doing the house works and they should not be educated that much or should not be encouraged to be educated. It was assured at that phase that the education was very costly that is why it should be invested on the sons as they are going will invest in household where the daughters will leave the house after marriage and manage the households of her husbands. Educating a girl was a waste of money for many poor people. However, with the continuous encouragement from my grandfather my mother and my aunt and older sister continued their studies (Yousapronpaiboon, 2014). My mom always said that education is very important to grow personal values and beliefs. Education can make a person wise and polite. My mother told me at that time due to the high cost of the school the parents were not able to provide all of their children with an education at the same time. In addition to these problems, there was another problem that is no control over the number of children in every family (Kiss et al., 2015). In that time, there were no use birth controls, people did not know much about the birth control techniques and did not concern about this matter. This resulted in an increasing amount of the children in every family each year. In order to provide education to all the children, some of the children had to make a sacrifice of their study so that their siblings can go to schools. Many of my aunts and uncles also had to quit schools to provide my mother with proper education (Tilak, 2015).
My mother used to study in the rural area where the schools were lacking proper technologies and methods of studying. Besides, there was also a lack of appropriate subject-specific teacher teachers (Tatto, 2013). Some teachers used to teach different subjects (Kaur, Young & Kirkpatrick, 2016). The schools were not properly equipped and did not use to have proper technologies. The infrastructure of the school was not for the standard education (Postlethwaite & Thomas, 2014). There was absence of the tables and chairs. The school used to deficiency in the fund for the purchasing new tables, chairs and boards. Often the authority of the school did not provide a salary to the teachers that make the teachers leave the jobs. There were numerous times when the classes did not start because of the absence of the teacher. Then the city used to provide better job chances for the teachers that result into a deficiency of teachers in the rural schools. Electricity was a luxury at that time; schools could not afford to provide electricity to the students. The students used to cover a great distance by foot to get to the school, as there was less communication or transport available to take the children to school. Besides, the parents could not even afford the money to buy books and pencils for their children, so it was a significant expenditure for them to provide money to the children regularly to take a ride to their school. My mother used to travel twenty kilometres every day by foot to reach the school. She has done her primary and secondary schooling from that rural school. My mother suffered a great difficulty to gain knowledge and to be educated. In spite of all the problems her high spirits, dedication and motivation from her parents helped her to achieve the target she aimed. She wanted to make her father proud and do not want them to regret the decision of letting her study. After a while due to the significant problems in the communication with school my mother moved into my grandfather's sisters house.
The distance of the school from there was less and also there was an availability of transports for her to reach her school. It was very convenient for her to use public transportation on a daily basis as it saved a lot of time for her to think about her future. After a while, her father could not afford to provide her money on a regular basis, as he had to support his other children as well. However, that did not stop my mother from pursuing her study. She was determinant to finish her education. My mother used work side by side with study in order to support her study. She used to do a part-time job. My mother finished her graduation with lots of hard work and determination. After the graduation, she took a job in order to become a self-independent woman. My mother was determinant to become a teacher. She could relate to the need for education for the children, as she knew how hard it is for some children to get education facilities. She understood that many children who were unfortunate faced many hurdles to study in their daily life. She always wanted to teach such students. Mother had her first job as a teacher in a remote area. The area was fifty kilometres away from where she lived. She faced many difficulties to reach the workplace regularly. In spite of this, she continued her job. She decided not to leave the job, as it was her first step in her career. She initially faced problems for three months. She used to work in northeast Thailand, which is very different from the place where she used to live which is the east of Thailand. The local areas of Thailand have different tongues (Blömeke & Delaney, 2014). Though the places are included in Thailand however, the cultural, social and spiritual values are different from each other in every region (Noom-Ura, 2013). In order to fulfill the occupational targets, a person is needed to know the regional language. The localities did not used to allow usually their children to study under a foreign culture. They used to believe that a foreigner could not teach their children proper values and educations that they ought to provide their offspring. My mother overcame this issue too. She worked hard for three months to learn the local tongue of northeast Thailand. Every time she got a job in the different areas of Thailand, she had to work hard on the local languages, Thailand has a vast range of local languages, and all of them are different from each other. After a long service, my mother is retiring within one year (Lavankura, 2013).
After learning my mother’s story, I realized that I was so lucky that I had all the opportunities that my mother never had. She is a great valued woman who never gave up and achieved the success she desired in spite of all the difficulties she faced. It is a long and challenging journey to be something in the educational field and to become successful needed tremendous hardwork, courage, motivation and also a bit of luck, for women it was more challenging at that time. I feel very inspired and motivated when looking back at her journey. I feel like I have to do something in my life in order to make her happy and proud. I had all the opportunities. I stay in the city. My life has everything. Schools have well infrastructure currently. My school is well equipped and have the proper technologies (Lao, 2015). I have my mobiles, laptop and computer to reduce the hard work but my mother did not have access to such technologies. I have an internet facility, which allows me to get access to all the data from all around the world. In current days it is easy to get any information, Technologies and the internet have made the world flat. Everyone can get the any information online, and in fact, the students can study online. There is no lack of resources. Nevertheless, in my mother's time, she had to consider many books to get any information. To learn languages, one can get a specialized course online. However, my mother learned the local languages in a hard way. I do not have to travel a long way for my schooling. In case the school is far away from my home, I have the transport facilities that are good enough to get me to my destination without troubling me much; earlier my mother did not used to get any transport, she used to walk twenty kilometers to get to her school every day. I have supports from my teachers and also had home tutors for every weekend to help me in my study till the secondary school (Prasongsukarn, 2015).
A conclusion can be drawn that my life is far more comfortable than my mother's life at this age. People from back used to do a lot of hard work and used to spend the maximum time to achieve their goals. In recent days in spite of having technologies and opportunities children fails to proud their parents. Many children do not even agree to appreciate their parent's hurdles in their life. They do not follow their example or do not approach them positively to know how they finished their schooling and graduation. However, by knowing my mother's story, I feel great respect for her. I always knew that she faced many obstacles but never knew how much did she meet. I have all the modern amenities to help with my study, and I never had any problem with my study (Fry & Bi, 2013). The education is now readily available nowadays that most of us do not give much concern about the study. We don’t feel thankful for the life we get. However still now there are children in the remote area who faces great trouble in their daily, and many of them do not even get the chance.
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